Like a lot of things, high expectations can go ways, the
positive and the negative. Expectations through encouragement might drive
someone forward, but if constant annoying nagging is enforcing it, to might
cause the complete opposite result. For me my mother nagging me about sleeping
early, going as far as to cut the inter, causes me to reject the idea of sleeping
early as a form of protest and to fight for the amendments that should be added
to the universal declaration of human rights, which is the right for all person
in the world to have access to internet. Having very good awards motivates me further,
for example the award of a iPod Nano drives me forward to win the English speech
contest. In short, if you ever have a child in the future, be sure to use
positive encouragement instead of punishments, especially when they are
teenagers.
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