1/31 thurs 2013 boring

SO yeah, today is a quite boring and monotone day, nothing much happened at all. i got home and it turns out that i got very few homework, so i just did my regular browsing and stuff like that, nothing much happened and yeah. i took the history test and i felt that the essay i wrote is my worst work so far. Mr. lex  hand us the test like after 10 minuets of the class so it means i will have to rush my work. during the afternoon i found out that the yearbook club has been disbanded, but as it turns out the people reformed the club and i was back into the club. we are ahead of schedule and it is quite pleasant that we are doing so. so yeah i jsut goofed off today and i can sleep at 10:30, which is good mes since my headache is killing me at the moment.

how do expectations effect performance

Like a lot of things, high expectations can go ways, the positive and the negative. Expectations through encouragement might drive someone forward, but if constant annoying nagging is enforcing it, to might cause the complete opposite result. For me my mother nagging me about sleeping early, going as far as to cut the inter, causes me to reject the idea of sleeping early as a form of protest and to fight for the amendments that should be added to the universal declaration of human rights, which is the right for all person in the world to have access to internet. Having very good awards motivates me further, for example the award of a iPod Nano drives me forward to win the English speech contest. In short, if you ever have a child in the future, be sure to use positive encouragement instead of punishments, especially when they are teenagers.

where do we go to escape it all

Every one has somewhere to go to recide form pressure and cruelties of life. for me, the place to get away form it all is virtual space. Yes, i know, its sounds very geeky; but i feel much petter and less pressured when i am dominating a game or killing other people. Playing video games help em get away from reality and all the problems that are occurring to me.What is kind of negative about such "special place" is that i easily get addicted to it, and i require it too often, this results in me not able to get enough sleep and time missmanagement. So yeah, I do not really suggest this habit to anyone, because it will kill you slowly and gradually leave u an empty husk. But hey, at least im not doing harmful things to other people, nor taking drugs or anything severely negative just to get away from my problems.

Class Journal-Why Do We Hurt The Ones We Love?

We are sometimes hard and hurt the ones we love because we want them to improve. the disire for our loved one's improvement will sometimes cause us to target them and drive or force them to work harder. we would sometimes ove commit and cause negative results instead. Sometimes I get mad at my cousin because she is not working hard enough to achieve the best of her potential. Even though I like her. We would sometimes get offended or worry to much about the ones we care about, We are sometimes too sensitive to what someone we cared about do. We might commit hurtful things because of overreacting to what our family has done. I don't like it when my mom sometimes overreact to something i do wrong, and fusses too much because she think that i am not responsible enough. So yeah, we should be less concerned about our loved ones and rust them to make the right choice more, that way, we would be less hurtful and strict on those who we cared about.