No, revenge is never justified, at least not conducted or
planned by the victim. as a Buddhist, is strongly believe that you will eventually
endure the pain you give to others. And that has been proven true many times
over in my life. I often found myself suffering the exactly same “tricky scenario”
that I often inflicted upon others just awhile back. This does not necessary
have to be based on religion however, pure logic can also prove that it is
true, as long as you help others, people will not want to hurt or make your
life miserable. Exerting revenge upon others is just dropping yourself to their
level, and eventually it will cause a continual cycle of revenge between two
individuals that never ends. As idealistic as that sound, however, due to my
rash and short-tempered personality I often have trouble sticking to my beliefs.
You do not need to conduct revenge on someone, eventually fate will do their
job.
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
what is friendship?
Friendship is the bond that people share between each other
that is positive. This means that there is lack of hostility between friends. Friends
would also be welling to help their friend out as well, they will be willing to
do a favor for their friend, even thought it requires a lot of work or something
signig=ficant a friend must sacrifice. A friendship becomes stale and corrupt when
one just abuses and takes advantage of another friend, buy exploiting and
getting favor from another friend and does nothing in return; or when someone
who just refuses to helpa friend because they are lazy. A decent friend will
also not require to much of their friend, and would take time to listen to
their friends complaint and provide positive feedback. In short, friends should
not be only about the good things, like videogames and hanging out, but also
helping each other at a time of need. Like the famous chinese quote, acholoic
meat friends, which means they are only there for the pleasures and will
retreat when you are in trouble, those are not the type of people you should
hang out with.
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